the movie’s official poster

This one night, I went out with a friend to see what’s on the big screen. At first, we only agreed to have dinner, but I didn’t quite expect that I would be joining my friend in the movies. Good thing I brought enough cash for the dinner and the movie tickets, even though it’s not my habit to spend on such.

Okay, so at first, we have no idea on what movie to watch. But as we go along the line-ups on what are showing, my friend pointed to me the movie that she wants to see. When I figured out what poster she’s pointing at, I took a glimpse and then look the other way. I was looking anywhere except on the poster of that movie that we’re about to see.

I used to be a fan of Filipino movies, especially when my grandparents and my dad were still part of the movie industry that time. However, since they’re no longer part of it, what they can do mostly is to watch and perhaps nothing more but be critics of modern films. Of course, since they were directors during their day, I somehow share their views about today’s movies, mainly in one word – CHEAP.

That being said, I felt awkward that time and my feet were telling me to just turn around and run away. But for the sake of friendship, I stayed and just said that I’m going to be okay and all.

So there we were standing in line to watch the movie entitled “When the Love Is Gone”. We bought the tickets, had our dinner, and then went inside the theater. As we find our seats, I was amazed on how few the people were inside. I could only think of five possible reasons: it was night time, it was raining, pay day has not yet come, the movie is not that interesting to watch, or just too many pirates.

Since there are not much moviegoers that time, we just settled for the back seat (the view is still good at the back anyways). As the movie was playing, my mind was still rejecting the fact that I’m actually inside the movie theater, and watching a pinoy movie that I no longer watch for a very long time. Also, my feet are telling me that’s it’s not yet too late for me to get up, walk out of the theater, and simply run away. The funny part is that my friend noticed how uneasy I was. Actually, I was quite tensed since I haven’t been inside a movie theater for like 10 years, and the last movie I watched that tie was the very first “Mano Po,” starring Kris Aquino, Maricel Soriano, and I forgot the name of the third artist. Nevertheless, I was able to relax and overcome the feeling later during the movie.

The movie is starred mainly by Gabby Concepcion, Cristine Reyes, Alice Dikson, Andi Eigenmann, and Jake Cuenca. Since I’ve seen the movie with a friend, I won’t give much of the story and spoil the movie. What I’m going to share are the core issues and the moral of the story.

All the problems stirred up in the story started from a guy (Cuenca) who turned out to be a homosexual. At first, they were having a good time with his wife (Reyes) almost every night until he was caught cheating, with another guy… on their ANNIVERSARY (Now, tell me that’s not messed up). As a result, their marriage ended up in separation.

On the other side, a family of three can be seen having breakfast together one morning. In fact, they even had to go see some exhibit that night. But since, the missus (Dikson) was all but busy with her small business, family time was put off. But that’s not all. The wife got so busy, they don’t even eat breakfast together anymore. Now, what do you think the husband felt about that? Perhaps, you could guess that he got bored and so he decided to go somewhere off world to unwind… or is it?

Okay, so the husband is at this place along the beach to “relax.” This is where he also met the wife of the homosexual guy I was talking about earlier for the second time (they met for the first time earlier in the movie at an exhibit). And for some reason, both of them have their eyes glued to each other, sparkling and all. You can guess what may happen next. Perhaps both of them are having a good time riding ponies, or exploring caves, or paragliding over some volcano. Whatever they were that they’re doing, it must be one heck of an affair. But wait, it didn’t happened just once.

The two went on “business trips” more often, and yes each trip last for days. However, they didn’t realize that they can be caught one way or another. The worst part of it is that the daughter (Eigenmann) was going to be the one to find out.

Okay, so they got caught having an affair, the missus finally knew about it, and yes, everything was an unmitigated disaster. Daughter begins to go to parties, gets drunk, and good thing is that her “boyfriend” was kind enough not to take advantage of her situation and just bring her home instead. She also began to rebel, as she sensed hypocrisy between her parents. Come to think of it, this part is actually a laugh (my laugh, if you may). I mean, a family guy shared by his own family and his mistress? You’ve got to be kidding me! He has to go home to his family just to make sure that their daughter is dropped off at school and then go back to the other woman afterwards.

The story itself has a lot of twists, encompassing the effects of homosexuality and adultery on marriage and family. The story didn’t end in a “happily-ever-after” manner. However, I did finished the movie and realized that it is somehow an experience worth sharing. After the show, me and my friend went out of the theater, outside the mall, bid each other farewells, and have her board a jeep to her work.

If you’re going to ask if the movie is worth watching, I’d say that the show is not much of a family movie, especially if they have kids aged 17 and below; some of the scenes are kinda pornographic. However, I could say that this is one of the movies that couples can watch, especially if their relationship seems to be in a rocky situation. Perhaps they can learn something from it.

Better Future

Posted: 10042013 in Points to Ponder

Everybody seems to want to have peace all over the world. However, this desire is being
opposed by another desire. It poisons the mind of every person, thus decaying the soul to
the core.

The pursuit, or should I say battle, to have world peace goes on as nations continues to
harbor nuclear armaments; as religions bash on other religions; as government parties
opposing each other every now and then; as young innocent minds continue to riot out of the
streets, while children continue to suffer in starvation. Indeed, the war for peace will never
end as conflicts all around us exists. So much for a better future that man hopes for.

Somehow, it would take something far more powerful; something that is far beyond the
capabilities of men. A Divine intervention, perhaps. Human beings would like to assume that
they can have peace in this rock we live in. However, as long as the desire for power, or
GREED exists, violence and suffering will come again, and again.

Before I even thought of putting this thought into writing, I realized, somehow, we have major
battles of our own. Regardless on how private or open they are, they’re always there. We may
want to run away from them. Nevertheless, they’re there… and they have to be undertaken,
no matter the cost.

Take a moment of your time and think, what are the battles that are going on in your lives?
What are the things that you so continually deny when someone rebukes you? Do we let pride take over your hearts, and be the person as you want to be?

PRIDE… I only know it as a brand for a detergent, not as a part of a person’s character. PRIDE, it’s one trait that keeps a person from pursuing peace. Though peace is intended by every person, one cannot strip himself of pride.

Okay, maybe we humans can’t perfectly remove pride in our lives.  However, it is still possible to wear a little of it – enough to maintain dignity and all. If anyone wishes to pursue peace, then it is best to wear less PRIDE and simply accept the fact that we are nothing more but dust to the ground.

We may have varying strengths. Nevertheless, we also have to acknowledge that we  also have frailties, regardless on what they are. Humility is key, and peace will always start from within ourselves if we would still like to have a glimpse of that better future.

Fight… not to fail…
Fight… not to fall…
lest give in to temptation and sin…

Dont feed them your hate…
Dont feed them your fear…
for your torment is what they desire…

Nightmares come to life…
Only when you dance with Hades…
and be a victim of a sinister scheme…

Thus, breathe out… then breathe in…
and let your mind be still…
for soon comes to save is He…

Let your strife be His fight…
and cast your worries aside…
for only He brings the ultimate deal, hope and light…

How has your life been lately?

Every person makes their own journey in life. What we become in the future is determined by our actions today. If you are to make choices, make sure they count in making you the person that you have always dreamed of.

How has your life been lately?

Remember that every journey starts with a single step. It doesn’t matter how you take it, just get going. You may have to take one baby step at a time but mind you, those first steps you take have been your longest stride.

How has your life been lately?

Face the facts. You can’t cheat death, you can’t steal life. Life isn’t like GTA – you key in the cheat codes and “poof,” you’re invincible, or godlike for that matter. So if you still don’t know what you want to do with your life, then it’s probably the time for you to get up, get a life and think that you are never living twice.

How has your life been lately?

It’s always been ok to act on your own. However, if a steamroller is about to crush you, it’s never cool to lie about it.You may have to get all the help you need from other people, from friends and even from strangers as well as from the people you considered foes in the past.

How has your life been lately?

Life is never meant to be easy for anyone, even for rich people as well as for rich people who steal from poor people. If problems just seem to keep piling up on you, deal with them. You’re body is not made for NOT overcoming trials in life.

How has your life been lately?

Whatever other people think of you is none of your business. You are a different creation. Don’t even try to be unique. It has been a curse for those who tried. believe it. Nevertheless, it doesn’t mean that you have to live like someone else. As mentioned, you are a different creation, not another Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie.

How has your life been lately?

Having the time of your life isn’t always having a good time, or so as the song goes. Basically, you need to have trials in life in order to make your life meaningful. Always remember that the Almighty allowed suffering to come upon mankind in order for them to be worthy of the inheritance should they overcome all them with His aid.

Death That Signifies Life

Posted: 08022011 in Memoirs

There are certain claims that a person would see a white light as they die. I guess I have to uphold that one since I have in fact experienced death not two weeks ago.

No wait, if I’m already dead, shouldn’t I be up in heaven, playing a harp, singing with the angels, feeling warm in God’s embrace and not writing another one of my sick compositions?

Well, I’m afraid that’s not the way it has to be, but to make the long story short, I “died” of “drowning.” Yes, in fact, I was submerged in a tub for a few seconds and the old me was buried in the water grave.

Imagine a rag full of dirt dipped in water. You would notice that all impurities are left in the water while the rag comes out clean. Therefore, as I rose out of the water, I never felt much alive since I knew then that I am rid of all the impurities and now have the Real Spirit, which is a real deal since that would be my token for the next chapter of my life.

Unless this is further explained, this would appear as if I am just another “lost soul” trying to find the light towards heaven. This is not so since I already FOUND the light. My “death” is more like the dawning of the rest of my life.

Bottom line, it’s just the death and burial of my old sinful self in a watery grave to wash the past away, as I have accepted the Christ as my Savior and King. If ever I get to experience physical death, it no longer matters since I know that my spirit will only be put into a deep sleep as I await the call for the coming of the King of kings.